We spend years looking for happiness. Some chase success, six-pack abs, dream jobs, ocean-view houses, inner peace, an ideal partner and whatever the life algorithm decided we should want this week. But I’ve been thinking… Maybe the rarest feeling isn’t happiness at all, maybe it’s being completely accepted, not the Instagram version of acceptance, not “I accept you… but maybe you could tone it down a little.” or “I love everything about you… except this list of seventeen things I’d like to optimise.” Read more