Somewhere along the way, we started confusing love with fusion. We celebrate couples who do everything together. They share hobbies, friendships, passwords, opinions, social media accounts and sometimes it feels like they even share a single personality. People call it relationship goals. To be honest, in my early twenties, I probably would have called it that too. Back then, I thought the closer two people became, the stronger their love must be. It took me years and a fair amount of life to realize that closeness and losing yourself are not the same thing. Read more